Sometimes all it takes to create change is action. One action. One action is greater than none, right? Whether you are trying to impact someone else, or simply your own life, one action is all it can take.

Sometimes our fears can prevent us from taking that first step. “What if I fail?” we quietly ask ourselves. And so we can procrastinate our way from ever taking a chance.
Dreaming is Not Enough
As PersistentIllusion grows in its success, I have been eyeing the blogging ‘marketplace of ideas’ Alltop.

From Adoption to Yoga, they have just about everything that could possibly stoke one’s passion.
I also really like that you can completely immerse yourself in an unfamiliar topic, allowing you to really absorb it. (I could easily spend a day exploring the outer reaches of Homeschooling!)
Of course the topic I prefer – no surprise here – is LifeHacks. It contains some of the most inspirational bloggers in the field – Steve Pavlina, ZenHabits, The Discomfort Zone, and Alex Shalman. Everytime I went through the LifeHacks articles, I would think to myself “I want to be on Alltop someday.”
Make ‘Someday’ Today
For some reason, ’someday’ was never that day. I didn’t feel I was ‘enough’…until last night. Everything simply clicked. What was I waiting for? What would be different a month or a year from now? What’s the worst that could happen?

Imagine the Worst-Case Scenario
The absolute worst that could happen is that I receive the response that says:
Dear Hayden,
We received your application and are at a loss as to why you even applied. We’re clearly out of your league. Go back to your blog-hole and cry yourself to sleep. We are going to post a message on our homepage about how awful you are.
Please don’t reapply.
Sincerely, Alltop
Well that would just be absurd, and anything else is manageable! Armed with my ability to face the worst I sent Alltop an email. And then waited. And waited. And waited some more.
If You Never Try, It’ll Never Happen
At 1:22 a.m. they finally put me out of my misery at ease. “Thank you for getting in touch with us. We agree!” No kidding. They actually said that.
If I never tried, never asked, there would be no opportunity. How many times do we do this in our lives? On what are you procrastinating, while indulging your ‘daydream’? What can you do today, right now, to take one action – one chance – towards your dream?
As for me, you know I posted the “Alltop” badge on PersistentIllusion with a quickness.

If you have a moment, check out LifeHacks. You’ll see me…on the bottom of the page in the middle of the page…with the biggest smile in the world.
Be Grateful
So thank you Alltop. And thank you to those of you who donated.
I was paid $23 (!) for doing something I love – writing this blog. ($21 of those love dollars came in after I had already met my goal.) The sheer knowledge that I had made over $1 doing something I loved, that I had incredible support from you – my love muffins! – gave me the courage to take that chance. To send the email.
So I urge you. Take action. Take one step, even a small one. One step matters.






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July 18, 2008 at 3:46 pm
Lee McKusick
I totally agree. Whenever my friends ask for my opinion on whether they should muster up the courage to do something that would likely benefit them, I always point out the fact that they’re already NOT doing it and that it really couldn’t get much worse than that.
And hey, look on the bright side: even if they did send you that response, you’d still be on Alltop. =D
hayden tompkins says:
LOL!
“I always point out the fact that they’re already NOT doing it and that it really couldn’t get much worse than that.”
That’s genius, Lee. You have some darn lucky friends.
July 18, 2008 at 4:48 pm
SanityFound
oooo congrats you *does loopy dance* I couldn’t agree more, if you never try you’ll never know and wheres the fun in that! They made the right decision … those five stars look good on “you”
How cool is this… I know of a Alltop author! Naturally this is all that concerns me
Waytago Hayden!!!
hayden tompkins says:
Concerns you? Don’t be silly!
July 18, 2008 at 4:58 pm
froggywoogie
You are very inspirational: you have put my brain on gear since I started to read you
hayden tompkins says:
Exceelleeent. My nefarious plan is working, bwahhahhahhahha!
July 18, 2008 at 5:14 pm
Kip de Moll
One step after another after another after another after…you’ve clearly got the idea. And the will to inspire all the rest of us.
hayden tompkins says:
July 18, 2008 at 6:57 pm
Kismetta
Thanks for posting this … I think you’re such an inspiration.
hayden tompkins says:
Well, since I am speaking to someone who has maintained a blog for seven years I am completely inspired by your dedication.
September 8, 2008 at 4:17 pm
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