Astonishingly, marriage and family building, or children, are the only things in life we assume we can do without a plan or recipe. 

Even companies in the process of a merger have a recipe, otherwise known as a “Merger Agreement”. And what is a marriage but a ‘merger’ of two individuals?  Love is an ingredient.  Love is not a recipe, a plan, or a Merger Agreement. 

Why on earth would you assemble furniture with directions, but ‘wing it’ when it comes to the most important decision you can ever make in your life?